Tuesday, January 30, 2007
Welcome to Mister Rogers' (Blue) Neighborhood
Tuesday, January 23, 2007
That's 15 Yards and an Automatic First Down!
Although admittedly, he was called for a block in the back later in the evening.
And here is Keira earlier in the day, warming up for the big game by loosening up her throwing arm: (Thanks to our super Cincy friends for keeping Miss K in some nice Colts duds!)

The week before, she was ready for the game in her "cheering girl" outfit (Quinn's term):
And here, taking a break to confiscate one of Quinn's favorite cars....afterall, what are sisters for if not to annoy their big brothers?!
Life is good! (Ok - that's what I'm thinking....I hope she is too! I know that's what Q is thinking since he's in the background watching a TV show on Saturday morning!)

Keira has been in our family for over a month now, and I think we've all been doing pretty well. Minor sleep issues aside, the adjustment is going as well as I had hoped. Maybe not as well as daddy had hoped, since she still has a strong preference for me...but well, knowing us both, wouldn't you??! (Ha ha!! Just kidding, sweetie! Really, I'm joking....mostly...!)
Wednesday, January 17, 2007
The Stand-Off Continues
1. She called me mama! I was putting her in her PJs on Saturday evening and she looked up at me, smiled, and said mama! Yippee. I gave her big kisses and hugs. And she did it again. Of course, she hasn't done it since, but we are making progress. And I thought the Colts win Saturday was a big deal. This was even better.
2. I may have spoken too quickly about how well she has been sleeping. All in all, still better than I thought. And still in bed some days til almost 9am! However, a new habit has appeared: waking up about 1-2 hours after going to bed, and refusing to close her little peepers for another 1-2 hours! She's the drowsiest looking girl, but those eyelids won't shut. Thankfully, this doesn't occur at 2 or 3 am. But still. The trade-off is that I get these adoring little stares. And periodic smiles. And pokes at my chest to "wake" me up. Apparently me closing my eyes to show her how it is done is not making much of an impression.
3. On a non-baby note, this to the city of Baltimore and the media in general: Stop it already! The Colts have been here since 1984. Granted, leaving in the middle of the night was probably not Mr. Irsay's greatest idea, but it is done. Stop talking about it. And, for the love of pete, would someone please remind them that they stole a team only a few years back! They are playing with the Cleveland Browns. As former Indy Mayor Hudnut commented on game-day, "....get a life!"
Sunday, January 07, 2007
R.O.C.K. in the USA
As you can see, there is no shortage of brotherly love for little Miss K. And she loves it. And of course, so do I.
As for day-to-day life, I think we are now all over jet-lag. I was prepared for this to take about 2 weeks (I had heard 1 day for every hour of time difference), but I think we were back on Indiana time in less than a week. And for those of you who know the history of time in Indiana, that is no small feat!
Keira herself is doing great! She's been sleeping 14 hours overnight these last few nights. Although apparently for her, afternoon naps are optional. Very optional. But if the girl can go from 7pm to 9am, I can let that one slip by. She's been eating well and feeling more secure here, I think. Quinn still gets the biggest smiles from her, but she's got plenty for mom and dad too. And, today's "first": first time not crying when being put into a car seat! Yippee!! As Quinn puts it, he can now finally have some peace and quiet in the car. Oh, and by the way, as far as her noodle affinity goes, it apparently only applies to noodles of the asian persuasion. This girl has little use for spaghetti. Except for as a hair decoration.
And now, a little look at what the Guangxi Girl has been up to.
Saturday, December 30, 2006
Home Sweet Home
Anyway, after one last quickie flight from Chicago to Indy, we were home!
Here's Q - excited to see us, I think!
And now he's showing off the shoes his sister brought him from China (light-up Spiderman tennies)....a little bribery, um, I mean gifting, does wonders for establishing positive sibling relationships!
And here's Miss K, strutting her stuff around Indy International with grandpa:
We are still adjusting back to Indy time, although doing pretty well for Day 5, I think. All in all, K is doing well, although still basically a momma-cling-on. She is starting to sit and play alone in the family room while I dash into the kitchen (she can still see me - this is key), and she's OK with being in the highchair (again, as long as I am close by). She will play nicely with the boys while I am in the shower, although she stages a loud vocal protest initially. She has met her maternal grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins; as well as our bestest friends and their kids. She lives to tell. And actually enjoyed herself as well. Quinn is adjusting fine too, although ironically, yesterday, Mr. Ask-1000-Questions-Talk-Nonstop-During-All-Waking-Hours-Unless-Watching-TV declared at lunch that Keira was too loud and he needed some peace and quiet. There has never been a blacker pot addressing a kettle.Wednesday, December 27, 2006
Thanks for the Memories, China
I think it goes without saying, what our favorite memory of the trip is. (Hint for those of you reading before your first cup of coffee: she's about 16 pounds and has a cute little giggle.) We will always have some love for this country because of the precious gift we are taking with us. Forever.
And before I get too emotional on the whole topic of how K came to us, I'll move on to another topic: Blogger's crabbiness. I upload pix in the reverse order of how I want them to show up, so I always load K pix last, sightseeing photos first. Well, guess what, Blogger decides to be grouchy on this last day, and for some reason is refusing to let me upload K pix. Sorry. Seems all you are left with now is the following.................
Our trip to a local Chinese medicine market.
The photo below shows the, um, Chinese equivalent of Cialis (hanging in center; an anatomical part of deer; you can guess the rest from here...)
Some cats, by the way, were quite fat. Especially the one I saw hanging around the fish aquarium store.Here's a general street scene, around the market:
Our guide, Cindy, did tell us about how the Cantonese like their meat fresh.
Now for something more pleasant, here's a photo of the entrance to the park next door to the hotel. The dad-statue has a video camera in hand. Celebrating adoptive parents, or mocking?
Tuesday, December 26, 2006
Look Out America, Here I Come!

Monday, December 25, 2006
Guangzhou-Ho-Ho!
Did I mention in my last post that the Chinese have really taken to celebrating Christmas? Of course, it's all Santa and no baby Jesus, as far as I could see at least. Anyway, it was a New Year's Eve-like atmosphere around the hotel last night. All sorts of celebrating by the locals and visitors from other provinces. The place was packed with people looking at the lights and decorations. There was even a gingerbread house with a live Santa in a park near the hotel. After a short walk around the hotel in the evening, we stayed put in our room, put Keira to bed (no crying at all!! woo-hoo! a first!), and later I watched a webcast of the Sunday morning Christmas Eve service at our home church. I needed a taste of home and some real Christmas spirit.
Earlier in the evening, our whole travel group had Christmas Eve dinner at a Thai Restuarant nearby - The Cow and Bridge. The food was good, and even Santa stopped by to give the kids candy.
Keira cried when she saw him, so there's no cute photo to show there (all Chris got on the camera was the back of her head, as she turned away from Santa and towards me with arms outstretched!)Here's the view (the Pearl River) from our hotel room on Christmas Eve night:

And now, Christmas morning view, from the 14th floor:
All dressed up for Christmas morning, although still a bit of bed-head:
I used to tease Chris about having pretty funny looking bed-head, but this girl takes the cake. One of the other moms here describes it best: firecracker hair! Seems Keira's not the only one with this problem.And here is what I call our Three-quarters Bright Family Photo:
And, last photo for today:
We hope you are all enjoying Christmas where you are. It seems that Santa has completed his ride over southeast Asia, so I'm sure he's had plenty of time to visit you all in North America!
Sunday, December 24, 2006
'Twas the Night Before Christmas
OK - I can't keep up the rhyming much longer, so I'll get down to business.
First, new photos of Keira having fun. She's been such a joy and is taking more interest in other babies now. She wakes up happy to see us and loves to go for rides on the bus.
Here's a photo especially for Grandpa N -- she is walking with daddy's help:
Love that sunlight pouring into our room? Did I mention it is in the 70s here? Supposed to be about 80 tomorrow, I think. If you have to be away from home for Christmas, this is the way to go! And by the way, the service here at the White Swan has been great so far. My favorite part has been the evening turn-down service. They bring a newspaper, turn down your bed if you want, and give you CHOCOLATE! Yum!! A close second is the great breakfast buffet. I've read rave reviews, and am now happy to say I concur. Can't wait for more French toast tomorrow, and fresh fruit, and pastries, and bacon and eggs, and...and...and!
Here she is, playing with daddy in the morning. Note that lovely ONU outfit she has on. This little genius is hoping there are more women and minorities on the ONU Board of Directors by the time she's choosing universities....or maybe it's been her mom saying that....

Now a few pix of the Chen Family Temple, otherwise known as the Guangdong Provincial Folk Art Museum. We visited there this morning. Cindy says that Chen is the Chinese equivalent of the name Smith or Jones in the US. The Temple is very, very beautiful - the photos don't do it justice, but I tried.
This is the main gate:
After touring the Temple, we did some shopping for jade and porcelin. We got some nice keepsakes for Keira. Apparently, diamonds weren't available in China until about 100 years ago, so jade was their precious stone. It is not quite as hard as a diamond, but still a hard gemstone and the Chinese used to use it in tools. And then they discovered that, hey, this stuff is pretty and we could use it for jewelry too.Happy Holidays to you all!

Saturday, December 23, 2006
Almost Home

It really is loverly here on Shamian Island in Guangzhou. Although the local shopkeepers giving you the hard sell if you even remotely cast a glance at their goods gets a bit old.
The weather here is so fabulous that I still really can't grasp the fact that tomorrow is Christmas Eve! (And Happy B-day today, bro!) Our guide is taking us to a Thai restaurant tomorrow to "celebrate", since she knows that Christmas Eve is a big family day in the US. Christmas Day itself will include a medical exam for the girls....I guess that would be the adoptive equivalent of coal in their stockings. But somehow, I'm pretty sure the parents will manage to make up for it.
Sweet baby Keira is still doing great. She is getting a couple of teeth on the bottom, but that's not slowing her down much. She's laughing and smiling more than ever and seems to have a pretty nice disposition, unless you try to take away food before she's done. I think "noodle" is the first English word she recognizes!
Here she is, wondering.....well, what do you think she's contemplating?
"Boy, that Nanning traffic sure is something!"???"Does the Colts defense have what it takes this year?"????"Who are these people?"???
And yet, another of the faces of Keira (probably after further contemplation of the Colts D or after realizing that she's stuck with us, or maybe.....??)

Unfortunately, our camera is dying a slow death here, so you may have to entertain yourself by coming up with captions for the above photos in the meantime. Hopefully we will have new pix tomorrow, but I'm not pulling a Joe Namath and making any guarantees.
Mingtian jian! See you tomorrow!
Friday, December 22, 2006
Zai Jian, Nanning
First, and most importantly of course, pictures of Miss K.
When I grow up I want to be.....
...a circus act?
...a championship eater?
....a pharmacist?(and don't write in about this, please....the bottle was empty!)

Earlier today, we went to the Minorities Museum here in Nanning. As I mentioned in an earlier post, Guangxi has a larger minority population that most other provinces in China. Even then, I think that the Han people make up something like 90% of the Chinese population as a whole; so the overall minority population is small. But here in Guangxi, minorities make up like 40% of the population or something. So, some of us have wondered if our daughters might be minorities. Cindy, our guide, says that there is no way to tell by just looking at them, but she doubts that they are, because the minorities value girls and women more than the Han traditionally do. So, she thinks that if they were minority girls, they would not have been abandoned.
Here is a photo behind the Museum. This shows a replica of a Wind and Rain Bridge that is typically built by the Dong minority.
Also behind the museum, we got to see a performance by some minority musical groups - including some Zhuang dancers doing a traditional harvest celebration dance, some Zhuang girls doing another dance, and some singers from the Dong minority. It was all very beautiful.Thursday, December 21, 2006
All's Quiet on the Eastern Front
We had a fun time at breakfast this morning, where she ate her favorite: congee. I'm going to have to figure out how to make this stuff when we get home, although I'm giving serious consideration to substituting Quaker instant oatmeal to see if she notices. Ha!
Here she is, happy to be dining:
And later, playing in the room. She loves the Elmo phone, things that make noise, and the ever-so sophisticated empty water bottle.
Here's another view from the top. This time a look at the Yongjiang (Yong River). Nanning was named Yong city wayyyyy back when, before it was given its current name. (Nan means south, ning for peace; as in peaceful, southern city...so sayeth our guide.)






